Im a straight femboy (mostly I guess) who wants to find girlfriend but they are so rare or it seems. Any tips and if they are out there?

This isn't a dating site.

HOLY SHIT, IT'S DANNY DEVITO

I would probably just say hang out in queer spaces. However, if you don't live near, or aren't willing to move to a large metropolitan area where you have tons of potential options, then your chances are so slim that you might as well not even consider looking.