GlowDonk said:
I dunno if it's just my sad ass but I seem to have trouble trying to get a hard-on seeing anything on this site without my boner being replaced with me being sad.
Could just be normal lol
Being totally transparent, when this happened to me it was my sign that the novelty of porn was over.
Not that I can’t enjoy it sometimes, but it was a sign that clearly what I was doing was making me sad and I needed to stop.
I ended up going on a porn hiatus for a while, started going to the gym, taking even better care of myself. I made an effort to be more social. I never had any issues with my appearance, social life or really anything. But I strived to make it a lot better. That changed things for me, and now I feel like I can somewhat manage looking at porn. Plus, my health and awareness sexually is a lot better. I pay attention to my body a lot more and everything there has been a net positive, pleasing others and having more endurance.
To tell the truth, I still have issues moderating it. My drive is really high and I often have to remind myself with notes that I need to go to bed or I have more important things to do. But taking the step away from porn and realizing how harmful it was, FOR ME, made me a lot happier and repaired my relationship w/ it.
I usually try to only be in this site a few times a week for short periods. Mainly because I’m not in a relationship right now and still want to maintain sexual endurance, without having to find a hookup or something :/
That’s just my piece, some people are totally cool w/ porn and it’s not my place to tell you not to. As long as you’re happy.
TL;DR take better care of yourself so that you are much more attracted to your character inside and out.
